here I am already neglecting this blog after a quick fling. I guess this is how I roll - considering only what works for me (and, hell, no one is really reading this anyways! Or are you?)
I figured I would post a few days ago when I got into an argument on the internet, with someone I don't even know. I just got frustrated with peoples' reactions to Chaz's (formerly known as Chastity Bono) announcement that he is, in fact, a man. people reporting on it, as well as people commenting on it, using female pronouns, people being so ignorant and rude as to say 'it' as opposed to him... it reeks of ignorance and transphobia. I know that many of the comments come from just that : ignorance. not necessarily maliciousness, just ignorance, though sometimes I feel like ignorance is just as dangerous. as I mentioned in my last post, I also tend to feel this at one of my common internet hangouts: jezebel. there at least most people put some amount of effort into understanding, trying to be more awesome no matter how misguided and misinformed some of these efforts are. I've been learning to pick my battles, or at least trying to.
me sitting at my computer brought to mind this comic (from xkcd.com)
rollover reads: What do you want me to do? LEAVE? Then they'll keep being wrong!while I know it makes no difference, sometimes I just can't help it! they're just so wrong.
sapphire
if you're not angry
then you're just stupid
or you don't care
how else can you react
when you know
something's so unfair
[ani difranco]
If you're picking your battles, you're already a step ahead of me-- if I'm energetic on a given day, I fight fight fight even if I know I'll have no effect.
ReplyDeleteOh, I just noticed this - yay, my first comment! (I think I may be unduly excited.)
ReplyDeleteGood for you though. Even if a fight doesn't have the effect you're hoping for, it might still do something - motivate someone else maybe?
But yeah, I'm trying to save my energy for when it counts. Trying being the key word.